like/need our independence, our separate lives, though having each other makes those separate lives all the richer and more meaningful. If that makes sense.

This makes so much sense. But I know the feeling of having to explain it all over again and again. *nods*

Currywurst - lol. I like the thinner ones with custard better, because I'm not too fond of the sauce and curry. *grin* But the best part about them is the experience of eating them with friends outside when it's cold. :-)