Reaching out to my flist here--anyone have any ideas?
My daughter's best friend Courtney's family took in a friend of their son's. His mother died, and his father abandoned him--sent him on a bus to Courtney's mom (who had moved from Las Vegas to Minnesota, but when they lived in Las Vegas the boy mostly lived with them).
The kid just turned 16. Turns out, he would've had to have been adopted at 15...which Courtney's mom VERY much wants. They were unable to accomplish that before his birthday thanks primarily to his father (who now can't be found), and now he is facing deportation to the Philipines.
He is 16. He has no family here but Courtney's, he has no family there. And, he is gay.
Any advice on how to keep him here would be appreciated. He has a lawyer and they are trying to do anything and everything they can but our government thinks it is more important to send a 16-year-old gay young man with no family or skills to a country he hasn't been to since he was a child.
Thanks flist--I have no idea how this kid can be saved and he is terrified, beyond terrified. I am heartsick for them all.
My daughter's best friend Courtney's family took in a friend of their son's. His mother died, and his father abandoned him--sent him on a bus to Courtney's mom (who had moved from Las Vegas to Minnesota, but when they lived in Las Vegas the boy mostly lived with them).
The kid just turned 16. Turns out, he would've had to have been adopted at 15...which Courtney's mom VERY much wants. They were unable to accomplish that before his birthday thanks primarily to his father (who now can't be found), and now he is facing deportation to the Philipines.
He is 16. He has no family here but Courtney's, he has no family there. And, he is gay.
Any advice on how to keep him here would be appreciated. He has a lawyer and they are trying to do anything and everything they can but our government thinks it is more important to send a 16-year-old gay young man with no family or skills to a country he hasn't been to since he was a child.
Thanks flist--I have no idea how this kid can be saved and he is terrified, beyond terrified. I am heartsick for them all.
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Date: 2009-12-18 07:52 pm (UTC)http://www.lambdalegal.org/
My heart goes out to him and your friends.
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Date: 2009-12-18 08:16 pm (UTC)Thanks, dear Lifty.
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Date: 2009-12-18 08:39 pm (UTC)My thoughts are with him, and the folks who are helping him, and you, and everyone.
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Date: 2009-12-18 08:40 pm (UTC)That's the most I can offer, I'm afraid, and like I said, it's a real long shot :(.
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Date: 2009-12-18 08:47 pm (UTC)If not, is it possible for him to enroll in a community college and apply for a student visa?
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Date: 2009-12-18 08:51 pm (UTC)I will keep him, and all of them, in my prayers.
(here via RM's LJ)
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Date: 2009-12-18 09:12 pm (UTC)And there isn't a way for him to live there. He knows nothing about any family at all.
Thanks very much for your thoughts. These are being passed along as well.
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Date: 2009-12-18 09:16 pm (UTC)If there's a way, we'll find it. Hang in there.
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Date: 2009-12-18 09:31 pm (UTC)It seems to me that the most practical course would be to get something initiated under the Minnesota Child Protective Services folks. I know that sounds absurd and scary, and I must qualify that by saying I don't know jack about MN CPS, but whereas Immigration is likely to treat him as an unaccompanied minor, and attempt to repatriate him, CPS might intervene on the fact that his mother died and his only living parent has abandoned him. As a ward of the state, he would have access to a different path to legal residency, which is essential if he wishes to stay here, and ever have a decent job. Special Immigrant Juvenile Status is a beautiful thing.
I can't speak, however, to whether MN CPS would act if his current caregivers were willing to keep him (you can always say, yes, we want him, but we can't enroll him in school consent for medical care, etc...)or if they did, if they'd allow him to remain in your friend's home. And then, you'd still need to make sure that someone had it on their radar screen to pursue SIJS. As in jump up and down about it.