UNREAL

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SJ and Tree are getting married.  Freaking hilarious.

I know that means nothing to almost everyone on this list, but to those who do remember the days of when Tree, SJ, his wife Teri who is now gone, their friend JM, and all the others, decided to (a) attack me over my relationship with Nick and (b) accuse me of 'causing Teri untold grief' in her last days (because quite frankly I got tired of her whining, her blaming everyone but herself for her health problems and troubles, when day after day she failed to ever do anything to help herself), well... You gotta know how this has me rolling in hysteria on the floor.

Egads, these people all deserve each other.

Forgotten, apparently, are all the disparaging remarks SJ first made to me about his wife, and then about Tree, night after night in chat. Forgotten are all the snide comments and ridicule directed toward Tree for her weight, her wart, her mega-boobs, her cleaning habits, her spending habits, etc. etc. etc.  So much forgotten, except for their incorrectly-remembered conversations with me.  These people, egads, these people...  I am dying here.

Sj, Sj, what are you thinking?  I guess he truly has forgotten all the things he said to me (as he did his frustrations about his wife when I set my own foot down about it all).

I will forever be the enemy to these people--and frankly? I am glad.

Kevin--this is locked, none of them can see it--I wasn't sure who was able to see my comment on your post.  But yes, my dear friend, I am just one step from horrified. I do hope SJ is happy, but I cannot get over this one.  I am laughing too hard. 

Crazy.   And you know what? I think Teri would be horrified.  One of the last things she said to me was about Tree, and her fears that Tree would take SJ's life over.  We had many many conversations about this, about Tree attempting to seduce SJ, etc.  (They were all roommates) 

Well my dear former friend (and I do miss the early Teri--never mistake that)...

You were right to be afraid.

C, the one who walked away--and am damn glad I (finally) did

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[sartorias.livejournal.com]

Poor things, I hope they can do all right.

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I promise I am *usually* not one to jump on people but these... They were my friends, and quite frankly, after Kel died, and I started to find my way to a happier place than I ever was before, and needed and wanted to be around them less and less (because everything was always so GRIM!) I just couldn't take it anymore. Teri lost her battle with a bad heart and extreme obesity soon afterward, and for some reason, I became the scapegoat, the devil, accused of breaking her heart... I couldn't believe the emails I got. Like a bunch of evil teenagers. I refused to respond to them after that. And THAT drove them nuts, which brought on MORE emails. I refused to play the game (whatever it was) and eventually it stopped, thank heavens.

It was all very sad and bizarre.

[sartorias.livejournal.com]

*nodding*

They sound like very broken people, and you did very, very well to get away from that. I just feel sad for their brokenness--I can do that because I never had to experience the frustration of their pettiness and malice. But there've been enough of that type in my own life for me to feel great waves of fellowfeel as well as sadness.